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Female Masturbation
Manually pleasuring yourself should be as natural as sex itself. And, while many
people are embarrassed by it, you really shouldn't be. O.k., maybe you don't want to broadcast it to your neighbors, friends, and family, but between you and your lover it doesn't have to be a secret. Masturbation actually does serve a purpose. Besides your own enjoyment, it also teaches you what feels good, and where it feels good. It teaches you how to relax during a sexual encounter in order to have better or more
orgasms. These lessons you learn can then be verbalized to your lover during sex for an even better sexual experience. Simply put, you've learned where it feels good when you do it, now tell him so he can make you feel good.
Remember that female masturbation is not about how many times you come to an orgasm. Or even whether you orgasm at all. It's about pleasing yourself, making you feel good like no one else can. While orgasms are
great, they really just indicate the highest point of pleasure during sexual arousal. There are many, many points in between that are immensely pleasurable. There is nothing wrong with you if you do not have an orgasm. Concentrate on how good you can make yourself feel. Generally over time, you will learn what and where feels best and how to bring yourself to
orgasm. But don't let that be the focus of masturbation, just enjoy the feelings.
 For
some masturbation techniques, the how and where to touch, this book shows you the best
masturbation tips in the art of pleasuring yourself.
The Joys of Masturbation
book
shows you all you ever wanted to know about the
pleasure of masturbation. It covers all facets, from the use of sex toys to individual, couple and group
masturbation. You will be completely pleasured by this great read.
Then there is this awesome
little toy. This small massager slips snugly on your finger. It's quiet and discreet for those times alone with
yourself. This little wonder can tease and please your clitoris to ecstasy.
The 5X Finger Vibe is definitely a vibrator to have in any and all collections.
 This
Vibrating Lipstick
with
the lid on is about 3.5 inches long and it looks just like a regular lipstick. Even when you remove the lid, it still
looks just like a lipstick. But, turn the handle a little, and it
begins to vibrate. You can leave this little vibrator on your nightstand and not have
to worry about what it really is. It's also great for travel.
This vibe is for external use, primarily for clitoral stimulation.
And it really does the job. I like that it is quite, well designed
and inconspicuous. The end is on an angle making clitoral
stimulation very easy. Don't leave home without it!
Now try arranging some alone time. Go somewhere you won't be bothered. Make sure you have some time available to you so you can relax and enjoy yourself.. If you can, lock the door so you won't be disturbed, if not make sure you request that this time be your alone time. Having a family can make alone time difficult, try requesting bath time once per week. This will be your alone time to relax and get away from the every day stresses. If you're new to pleasuring yourself, or just looking to get more out of it try creating some ambience. Bring a cassette or cd player with you to listen to soft music. Purchase a few scented candles. The fragrance lavender is known for it's relaxation properties. Then relax and enjoy your time alone with yourself. Enjoy the soft music, and the scent and glow of the candles. Don't rush, start off slow and easy. You know where to touch to make you feel good, don't be embarrassed, just go with
it and feel the joys of female masturbation.
Copyright: Marie Clare - http://www.lifematesnow.com
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