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Foreplay - The Art Of
Seduction
Are
you like many other guys when it comes to foreplay?
Confused, clumsy, and you just don't know what to do! Does
your heart drop and you hesitate at the mere mention of
the word?
As many of
you have probably found out, most women consider foreplay
a very important part of sex. And there is very good
reason for this. Our bodies don't react sexually as fast
as yours does. We need some warm up time to get into the
mood. While each woman is different as far as how much she requires before she is sexually aroused,
studies have found that most women all like the same type
of sexual stimulation. So based on that theory, and some of my own
experiences as well ;-) I've put together a list of
foreplay tips your lover will melt over.
Hugging
This is a great way to start off your sexual romp. Most
women love to be hugged. To be held tight by their lover.
This gives us a protective feeling and tells us you want
to be close to us. It's easy to do, just start by holding
your lover close and pressing her body against yours.
While hugging her lightly kiss her neck and shoulders.
Petting
Try this foreplay technique. While laying down run your hands lightly and softly up and
down, exploring the peek and valleys of her body. Some
women love to have this done to their neck, shoulders and
back. Others, like to have their buttocks gently massaged.
And yet others love their breasts softly caressed. This
will all depend on where your lover's erogenous zones are.
If you're both undressed gently kiss and lick these areas
as well. She'll be like putty in your hands, ready to be
molded in any way you want.
Kissing
It's important to start off slowly. Just a soft pressing
of your mouth against hers. No tongue to start. After a
few of these kisses slowly start to push your tongue out
just a little bit, hopefully enticing her to open her
mouth. As her mouth opens gently slide your tongue in a
little further. Then press your lips against hers a bit
harder and with a bit more passion. From there move to
kissing other parts of her body as well.
By this
point your lover should be really turned on. If you both
still have your clothes on it's time to start removing
them - slowly. Start with her top and bra.
Caressing
Her Breasts
Place your hand on her breast. Softly caress it. Use your
forefinger and thumb to gently squeeze her nipple. See how
erect it is. She is really turned on. Now stop and take a
moment to tell her how beautiful she is and how much she
is turning you on. Women want to be told this, and now
would be the perfect time. Then softly take her nipple
into your mouth, run your tongue around it's hardness. Use
your hand to softly caress her other breast.
What
happens next will depend on you and your lover. But, it's
now time to explore her vagina. You can gently place your
hands between your lovers legs. If she is still wearing
panties gently rub her private area while still kissing
her body. Slowly move her panties to the side and gently
explore her clitoris. Very lightly rub her clit with your
fingers. Or, if you like you could go down on her using
your tongue to softly stimulate her clitoris. Either way,
that's up to you and your lover.
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Now
if you're feeling a little shy about getting
started, here's a great game that will help you both get in
the mood. Foreplay
- A Game For Lovers
Share and explore each other's thoughts. What is your most secret fantasy...what is your lover's? What has been the most exciting sexual experience you have shared together?
Relax and let the game board take you on a journey of foreplay The first one to finish the game receives immediate physical pleasures. |
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This book is the ultimate guide to
Foreplay. 74 full color photos
tastefully illustrate the art of foreplay. You have always wanted to try new things and here is your chance. Your sex life will never be boring again. |
The
important thing to remember about foreplay is that it
should be done gradually. Slowly increase the physical and
emotional sensitivity. As the arousal mounts you increase
the stimulation.
Copyright: Marie Clare - http://www.lifematesnow.com
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