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Attract Women - The Inside
Scoop
Hey
guys are you confused about women? You know we really
aren't that difficult to figure out. Although... I'm not
sure my husband would always agree with that. ;-) At our
website we are always getting emails, questions from guys on
dating, relationship, romance and how best to deal with
situations involving women. So to help you overcome some
of your confusion I've put together some of the most asked
questions and what my answers to them are. Check them out
and get The Inside Scoop today!
Q: Where can
I meet women?
A:
Anywhere and everywhere really! More and more the old bar
scene is dying away. With busy careers today's women just
don't have the time for that. As explained in my book "The
Ultimate Online Dating Handbook" many
of today's singles look to the Internet for relationships.
There are many online dating sites that range from
religion orientated, to long term relationship and
marriage, to the more risqué and one night stands. You
also need to be aware of the women who are around you no
matter where you are. For example, your local coffee shop.
This is a great place to meet women. Most coffee shops
have a very cozy and relaxing atmosphere. Seats are
usually situated close together therefore making it easy
to start up a conversation. If you're at a grocery store
and see a pretty women you would like to meet, ask her
opinion about a product to get a conversation going. While
at the beach, start up a game of beach volleyball. While
on public transit maybe ask about her perfume. The secret is attracting the woman once you've seen her. To get her
attention start up a legitimate conversation. Try to keep
it going for as long as you can. The longer you both talk
the more relaxed she'll become with you.
Q:
When do I approach a woman?
A:
As quickly as you can, and without hesitation! Let me
explain. A lot of times we over think what we are about to
do. And if you think about it for too long you'll talk
yourself out of approaching her. Just go ahead approach
her and say the first thing that comes into your head.
Whatever you say try to have it lead to a conversation.
Ask her questions. The more answers she gives you the more
questions you can ask. This will eventually lead to a
continued conversation. Having a conversation with a woman
will help
you have a rapport and create a connection with her.
Q:
How can I be less nervous around women?
A:
What makes you nervous is your negative thinking. You're
too rapped up in what she will or is thinking about you.
You know that little chatter box you hear as you're
approaching a woman. The one that says things like
"she won't give me the time of day" or "I'm
not even in her league" or " She's too good for
me". Well it's time to get rid of it. And the only
way to get rid of a chatter box is to ignore it and
approach the woman anyway. With practice you won't hear it
any more. Look, you're as good as anyone else on this
planet regardless of what negative stuff you keep telling
yourself. Are you going to get a conversation going with
every woman you approach? Hell No! But look at it this
way. When you play hoops do you get the ball in the basket
every single time you try? If you're being truthful the
answer is no. So approaching a woman is similar to playing
basketball - practice, practice, practice. Once you've
done it often enough you'll lose your fear. You no longer
will hear your chatter box, and you won't be so nervous.
Soon you'll be able to strike up a conversation with any
woman you like.
Q:
Why do women like "bad boys" and not "nice
guys"?
A:
O.K. all you nice guy's, contrary to popular belief, women
actually do like "nice guys". What we don't like
is a door mat or a fool. You see, unfortunately it is
human nature to walk all over someone who is weak and lets
you push them around. But do you respect that person? Not
likely. Women generally like someone we can be equals
with. Someone who will respect themselves so we in turn
can respect and admire them as well. Just be real. Don't
be a jerk, don't be a push over and you'll do just fine.
Q:
When is the best time to kiss or hug a woman?
A:
Really this will depend on the situation you are in. But
before you consider the hug or kiss see how receptive she
is to you first. Try the "kinesthetic approach"
kino for short. Simply put, this is non-intrusive
touching. For example, say you are some place really noisy
and crowded.. A bar or a concert for example, try speaking
to her. You'll need to lean in really close and speak into
her ear. While doing this touch her arm. Take note as to
whether she is comfortable with that, or whether she pulls
back. This is showing her that you are a sexual person who
is not afraid to move in close and make contact. If she
doesn't pull back she may be ready for a little hug or
kiss. Now obviously this is not something you do when you
first meet a woman. Watch and listen. Watch her body
language and listen to what she's telling you. You'll soon
know when the time it right.
Q: Can I find a Date
Online?
A: Yes, It's a known
fact that Online Dating is fast becoming one of the most popular
methods used to meet other people. Over 61% of
American Singles will be looking for a Date Online this year.
Why? In today's fast pace world, with busy work schedules and daily routines, it's difficult to find the time for Romance in our
lives!
Here at Lifematesnow we recognized your busy lifestyle, and can assist you in
finding your dream date, a sexy
playmate or just great friends to hang out with. Join LifeMatesNow
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Copyright: Marie Clare - http://www.lifematesnow.com
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