Animal Lover's
Dating Tips
Are you an animal lover
with a new mate? Did you know that experts say the way people treat
their pets is indicative of how they'll treat you in a relationship?
Having a pet is very similar to a romantic relationship, minus the sex
and relationship talk. A pet needs to be cared for, fed, bathed and
loved, just like it's human counter part. As mentioned in my book the Ultimate Online Dating
Handbook most often if someone
is loving and kind to their pet they will likely be so in a romantic
relationship as well. But on the other side of the coin, if someone
tends to be domineering and pushy with their pet, you can pretty much
expect the same thing with your relationship.
People who have and love pets will
usually look for a mate who has that same quality. And pet owners will
often judge people based on how they treat their pet. If someone
continually yells and howlers or strikes at their pet it is generally
concluded that this person needs anger-management classes. These
people will usually have animals that cower and even shake at their
site.
There are also those who consider their
pet to be just like people. These people will do things like feed
their dog from the table. Sometimes this can show an unwillingness or
an inability to say no. Or what about the person who over accessorizes
and spoils their pet. They could be over compensating for something
not found in their life. It may show this person to be shallow and
superficial. Their pet may be nothing more than an accessory to them.
They are in constant need of external approval.
If you are someone who really loves
their pet then it is best to find a mate who also loves animals.
Usually problems occur when someone who is not fond of pets tries to
have a relationship with a pet lover. If your new lover is jealous of
your pet it will be a real problem. Most likely it is the relationship
and not the pet. Generally these same people who are jealous of pets
are also grumpy about their partner's work, workplace, friends and
time alone. This person can be attention seeking and insecure.
So, if you're an animal lover these dating
tips will help you choose a mate both you
and fido can love.
Copyright: Marie Clare - http://www.lifematesnow.com
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