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Anal sex or anal intercourse is a commonly practiced form of human sexual behavior in some cultures. It involves the anus and possibly the rectum, especially, but not limited to, the insertion of the erect penis into the rectum through the anus.
The use of sex toys and other activities involving the anus and rectum may be considered
anal sex as well. Anal sex can be pleasurable for both the insertive partner and the receptive partner, as the anus contains many of the same kinds of nerves as the penis or clitoris.
For women, pleasure is derived from anal intercourse because the rectum shares a wall with the vagina and therefore shares some of the nerve endings associated with sexual pleasure. The anus itself also contains a number of nerves which can react pleasurably when excited.
Condoms are known to be less effective and more prone to burst or slip during
anal sex than vaginal sex. It has been estimated that condoms fail anywhere from 10% - 32% of the time during
anal sex. Due to this Durex has added a warning to boxes of their condoms saying "for vaginal sex only".
Condom manufacturers often offer an "extra strong" condom, or a type designed specifically for
anal intercourse, and these kinds of condoms should be the type used when
anal sex may happen. These condoms are usually not coated with the usual spermicide found on vaginal condoms, so whilst stronger, they may offer no inherent protection against
pregnancy in the case of vaginal spillage.
For males, the tightness of the anus is often said to be a source of pleasure for the "active" partner in penetrative
anal sex, while the presence of the prostate gland near the rectal wall is a source of pleasure during receptive
anal intercourse. A sexual climax for the recipient (referred to colloquially as an anal orgasm) can occur through
anal sex.
Men can experience the anal orgasm without engaging in
anal sex. A sex toy may be used or a woman can stimulate the prostate gland with her fingers. To do this, begin with some lube and one finger. When your partner is comfortable insert another finger and if they desire, three fingers. Hook your fingers up and gently stroke the prostate gland. The anal orgasm is extremely intense for males and has nothing at all to do with his sexual orientation.
The vagina normally produces its own lubrication during sex; the rectum does not, so a store-bought personal lubricant is recommended by most sexologists for an enjoyable
anal sex experience. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention and the World Health Organization, unprotected
anal sex carries more risk of STI transmission than vaginal or oral sex. To reduce the risk of transmitting STIs such as HIV, proper use of a latex condom is recommended for all sexual contact which could result in transfer of bodily fluids, including
anal sex.
If you are new to anal sex, remember to move slowly and gently. If it becomes painful, stop. It is possible to cause damage by too vigorous movement and moving too quickly. Always use lube! If you want to stop, make it clear to your partner that stop means stop beforehand. Never penetrate deeper than 8 inches.
Both men and women find pleasure from anal stimulation. Men in particular will enjoy the anal orgasm so don't be put off exploring this area of your sexuality. Approach it correctly and enjoy!
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